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Relationships: Soulmate Math For Finding The Perfect Lover For Happily Ever After

How many traits are on your wish lists for your Hero or Heroine? 5? 50? Or, is the only requirement that they be currently breathing? 
There are about 100 Million single adults in America. You would have the best probability of finding your Hero or Heroine if you were truly bi-sexual and only required breathing. In [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Soulmate Math For Finding The Perfect Lover For Happily Ever After

Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Regrettably, this is a way too-often seen dragon that keeps many from even trying to find their own Happily Here & Now path to Happily Ever After.
For what seems like a multitude of reasons, many simply don’t think they have the right to choose their own destiny. Approval by parents, spouses (both far past and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Or, is it love, monogamy, sex?  Or, monogamy, love, sex? Or, love, sex, monogamy?  Or, monogamy, sex, love?  Or, sex, monogamy, love?
What do you think is the right order of these?  Are you sure?  Since we are talking about long-term relationships that might last till Happily Ever After, the answer here is NOT sex, sex, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Relationships: Facet Foreplay Before The Chemistry

Like a diamond, we all have multiple facets that reflect different parts of who we are. Some of us are even brilliant-cut and have 58 facets…..some of us have less…some of us have more.  If both you and your prospective lover are both brilliant, then between you, you’re going to have 116 facets of history, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Facet Foreplay Before The Chemistry

Relationships: Five Years from Today – Your Personal Plan With Your Lover

Five Years from Today WILL Happen.  No Matter What You Do — Or Don’t Do.
Think about you and what you REALLY want. How do you want your Hero or Heroine to participate and share in your day in day out life? Does your Soulmate Applicant envision the same lifestyle and goals that you do? If [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Five Years from Today – Your Personal Plan With Your Lover

Love: The Nine Stages of the Love Cycle

Isn’t love wonderful? Isn’t love terrible?
Isn’t it terrible how cyclical the Quest for wonderful love seems to be for you?
Let me see if I can quickly point to some compelling evidence that might, just maybe, sway your thinking and open your mind to an approach that might, just maybe, be better than all the ones [...] . . . → Read More: Love: The Nine Stages of the Love Cycle

Love: The Rejection Dragon – When You Don’t Want Them Or They Don’t Want You

Just like your prior real-life, there are going to be two kinds of rejection you will encounter using The Good-Man Methodology:  You will reject others and others will reject you.
Rejection of Them
If you are doing a good job of exposing yourself and expanding your Known Universe, then the good news is that you should end [...] . . . → Read More: Love: The Rejection Dragon – When You Don’t Want Them Or They Don’t Want You

Relationships – The Monogamy and Commitment Dragon

“Momomomonogamy and cococococommitment,” she stuttered during her most current anxiety attack. She stumbled just saying the words – knowing what he wanted as the next step in their relationship.
Yes, I said “she” – because unlike all the movie and TV stereotypes, this dragon is not just male – otherwise, how would it mate and have [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships – The Monogamy and Commitment Dragon

Love: Instant Chemistry And Love At First Sight

“I’m sorry but your Method makes no sense to me. I want chemistry first! Then, if that is there, I will take the time to do my lists.”
This is one of the most-often responses I get from those who visit my web pages – but who haven’t yet taken the time to read the blog [...] . . . → Read More: Love: Instant Chemistry And Love At First Sight

Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – Relocation

A consequence of expanding your Known Universe using the Internet is that it is just as easy to have a prospective Hero or Heroine 2,000 miles away as two miles away – although it will seem to you that NONE of the good ones are only two miles away. Which is why this is also [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – Relocation