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Relationships: The Process We All Hate – And How To Stop The Cycle Of The Nine Stages Of Love

Don’t Kill The Messenger!
Sometimes, I get complaints from readers that this whole process is too damn complicated.
Bear in mind that the Process IS the Process…and has little to do with any thing I want or say or do…or how much we both may wish it were different. So, it is pointless asking me to change [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Process We All Hate – And How To Stop The Cycle Of The Nine Stages Of Love

Relationship Dragons – The Sneaky Ones That Kill Happily Ever After

Most relationship dragons are just big brutes with no subtlety to them at all. They will just defiantly stand in the middle of your path to Happily Ever After – daring you to try and get past them.Regrettably, you are probably familiar with many of them. Ones like Jealousy, Doubt, Suspicion, Breakpoint, Reality, Illogical Infatuation, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationship Dragons – The Sneaky Ones That Kill Happily Ever After

Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Regrettably, this is a way too-often seen dragon that keeps many from even trying to find their own Happily Here & Now path to Happily Ever After.
For what seems like a multitude of reasons, many simply don’t think they have the right to choose their own destiny. Approval by parents, spouses (both far past and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Relationships: The Deranged Dragon – Abuse, Violence and Happily Ever After

Being part Texan, I would joke about this dragon being home, home on deranged – if it wasn’t such a serious and potentially violent, and sometimes life-threatening, issue for so many. If your home contains the deranged, that is probably the first problem you need to solve before you can find any path that might [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Deranged Dragon – Abuse, Violence and Happily Ever After

Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Or, is it love, monogamy, sex?  Or, monogamy, love, sex? Or, love, sex, monogamy?  Or, monogamy, sex, love?  Or, sex, monogamy, love?
What do you think is the right order of these?  Are you sure?  Since we are talking about long-term relationships that might last till Happily Ever After, the answer here is NOT sex, sex, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Relationships: Better Loving Through Chemistry

Oxytocin is a hormone present in both men and women, best known for being produced when women breast-feed a baby, and part of the chemical reaction that Mom Nature uses for the mechanics of producing and delivering milk.  But like a lot of stuff, it has side effects galore, including sexual arousal in women and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Better Loving Through Chemistry

Relationships: The Waylaid Dragon

This is probably the one dragon you already know all too well because it is one of the most common, showing up repeatedly on almost everyone’s path.
Like Sirens, you will have dragons of Loneliness or Horniness or Great Chemistryness, or whatever, softly singing for you to give up your Quest – doing all in their [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Waylaid Dragon

Relationships: The Three Hard Parts of Love and Relationships

The Hard Parts of Love and Relationships
My guess is that most of you have already had relationships galore. Good ones. Bad ones. Regrettable relationships. Forgettable relationships. Relationships that were life-changing. With all of them adding up to too many Cycles through too many of the Nine Stages. All of that experience has gotten you where [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Three Hard Parts of Love and Relationships

Love: The Nine Stages of the Love Cycle

Isn’t love wonderful? Isn’t love terrible?
Isn’t it terrible how cyclical the Quest for wonderful love seems to be for you?
Let me see if I can quickly point to some compelling evidence that might, just maybe, sway your thinking and open your mind to an approach that might, just maybe, be better than all the ones [...] . . . → Read More: Love: The Nine Stages of the Love Cycle

Love: The Rejection Dragon – When You Don’t Want Them Or They Don’t Want You

Just like your prior real-life, there are going to be two kinds of rejection you will encounter using The Good-Man Methodology:  You will reject others and others will reject you.
Rejection of Them
If you are doing a good job of exposing yourself and expanding your Known Universe, then the good news is that you should end [...] . . . → Read More: Love: The Rejection Dragon – When You Don’t Want Them Or They Don’t Want You

Relationships – The Monogamy and Commitment Dragon

“Momomomonogamy and cococococommitment,” she stuttered during her most current anxiety attack. She stumbled just saying the words – knowing what he wanted as the next step in their relationship.
Yes, I said “she” – because unlike all the movie and TV stereotypes, this dragon is not just male – otherwise, how would it mate and have [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships – The Monogamy and Commitment Dragon

Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – The Test Drive

Hopefully, you make it here. All the dating has been wonderful and you successfully defeated every one of the dragons that tried to keep you from a shared path of Happily Here & Now. You have even shared some reality and that part was amazing and incredible.
You are both now in Stage One Love and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – The Test Drive

Love: Instant Chemistry And Love At First Sight

“I’m sorry but your Method makes no sense to me. I want chemistry first! Then, if that is there, I will take the time to do my lists.”
This is one of the most-often responses I get from those who visit my web pages – but who haven’t yet taken the time to read the blog [...] . . . → Read More: Love: Instant Chemistry And Love At First Sight

Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – Relocation

A consequence of expanding your Known Universe using the Internet is that it is just as easy to have a prospective Hero or Heroine 2,000 miles away as two miles away – although it will seem to you that NONE of the good ones are only two miles away. Which is why this is also [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Long Distance Relationships – Relocation