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Why Real Love Requries Honesty

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A lie will easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, strangely and beautifully, rapture possesses you when you have taken the scrape and left out the lie. ~Charles Edward Montague, Disenchantment
DR. LISA LOVE REFLECTIONS
Recently, I picked up a great book, Act Like A Lady, [...] . . . → Read More: Why Real Love Requries Honesty

Relationships: Physical Compatibility

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How important is physical compatibility in relationships? Well, it depends on the couple. For some people their physicality is of utmost importance to them. When it is, they often want their partner to engage in many of their activities with them. For some couples the physical nature [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Physical Compatibility

Why Am I Still Single? – Online Dating, Dating and Chat Etiquette for Singles

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Have you ever looked at your friends who have long term partners and wondered why you haven’t got that in your life? Do you ever wonder when Mr. or Ms. Right will come along, and what the hold up is? Have you ever thought if perhaps, possibly, [...] . . . → Read More: Why Am I Still Single? – Online Dating, Dating and Chat Etiquette for Singles

What Soulmate Theory is All About

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You might date very many people but only one was meant to be your soulmate. Not every one who get attracted to you qualifies to be your significant other. It is more than meets the eye. It is abit confusing when out of the blues your blood [...] . . . → Read More: What Soulmate Theory is All About

The Secrets of Happily Married Men

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With almost half of first marriages ending unhappily, and an even greater percentage of second marriages doing the same, it’s apparent that the overload of self-help marriage books, Dr. Phil instant-therapy shows and widely-available marriage counseling is not keeping marriages from going under. However, every once in [...] . . . → Read More: The Secrets of Happily Married Men

Welcome the Dating Coach – the New Super Hero of 21st Century Online Dating

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The Online Dating Industry is exploding with millions of new members joining every single day. It is estimated that within the next five years, almost 50% of all single adults will use Online Dating Services to meet other singles!
As more and more people use online dating services [...] . . . → Read More: Welcome the Dating Coach – the New Super Hero of 21st Century Online Dating

Soulmates; the Secret of Being in a Soulmate Relationship. (the Ins and Outs of What to Expect When Meeting Your Soulmate)

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Are we destined to be with our soulmate? Does everyone on this earth find their soulmate? Or is just a load of rubbish? The term Soulmate in a spiritual sense is well meaningful. Of course that is; if ‘one’ should see and believe the spiritual side of [...] . . . → Read More: Soulmates; the Secret of Being in a Soulmate Relationship. (the Ins and Outs of What to Expect When Meeting Your Soulmate)

Happily Ever After Starts Now!

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As little girls, we grew up with dreams of eventually living our own fairy tale lives. We saw Cinderella getting the price, Sleeping Beauty awakening to her beloved’s kiss after years of sleep, and Snow White living happily ever after with her true love. We yearned for [...] . . . → Read More: Happily Ever After Starts Now!

Getting Out In A Bad Relationship

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So, you thought you have finally found the ONE.
Someone who has an established career, with stable financial status, responsible, good looking, intelligent, and good-humored person has finally come into your life.
But, just when you thought you’ve finally met the ideal man or woman of your dreams, everything [...] . . . → Read More: Getting Out In A Bad Relationship

Is Sexual Compatibility Essential For A Marriage To Succeed

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If we were to believe everything the books and glossies tell us, nothing could be more important in a marriage than sex and sexual compatibility. And there are any number of therapists, how-to books and videos available to reinforce this viewpoint.
Yet, is this really true? Is this [...] . . . → Read More: Is Sexual Compatibility Essential For A Marriage To Succeed

Relationships: Soulmate Math For Finding The Perfect Lover For Happily Ever After

How many traits are on your wish lists for your Hero or Heroine? 5? 50? Or, is the only requirement that they be currently breathing? 
There are about 100 Million single adults in America. You would have the best probability of finding your Hero or Heroine if you were truly bi-sexual and only required breathing. In [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Soulmate Math For Finding The Perfect Lover For Happily Ever After

Relationships: The Process We All Hate – And How To Stop The Cycle Of The Nine Stages Of Love

Don’t Kill The Messenger!
Sometimes, I get complaints from readers that this whole process is too damn complicated.
Bear in mind that the Process IS the Process…and has little to do with any thing I want or say or do…or how much we both may wish it were different. So, it is pointless asking me to change [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Process We All Hate – And How To Stop The Cycle Of The Nine Stages Of Love

Relationship Dragons – The Sneaky Ones That Kill Happily Ever After

Most relationship dragons are just big brutes with no subtlety to them at all. They will just defiantly stand in the middle of your path to Happily Ever After – daring you to try and get past them.Regrettably, you are probably familiar with many of them. Ones like Jealousy, Doubt, Suspicion, Breakpoint, Reality, Illogical Infatuation, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationship Dragons – The Sneaky Ones That Kill Happily Ever After

Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Regrettably, this is a way too-often seen dragon that keeps many from even trying to find their own Happily Here & Now path to Happily Ever After.
For what seems like a multitude of reasons, many simply don’t think they have the right to choose their own destiny. Approval by parents, spouses (both far past and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The No Right To Choose Dragon

Relationships: The Deranged Dragon – Abuse, Violence and Happily Ever After

Being part Texan, I would joke about this dragon being home, home on deranged – if it wasn’t such a serious and potentially violent, and sometimes life-threatening, issue for so many. If your home contains the deranged, that is probably the first problem you need to solve before you can find any path that might [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Deranged Dragon – Abuse, Violence and Happily Ever After

Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Or, is it love, monogamy, sex?  Or, monogamy, love, sex? Or, love, sex, monogamy?  Or, monogamy, sex, love?  Or, sex, monogamy, love?
What do you think is the right order of these?  Are you sure?  Since we are talking about long-term relationships that might last till Happily Ever After, the answer here is NOT sex, sex, [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Sex, Love, Monogamy

Relationships: Better Loving Through Chemistry

Oxytocin is a hormone present in both men and women, best known for being produced when women breast-feed a baby, and part of the chemical reaction that Mom Nature uses for the mechanics of producing and delivering milk.  But like a lot of stuff, it has side effects galore, including sexual arousal in women and [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: Better Loving Through Chemistry

Relationships: The Waylaid Dragon

This is probably the one dragon you already know all too well because it is one of the most common, showing up repeatedly on almost everyone’s path.
Like Sirens, you will have dragons of Loneliness or Horniness or Great Chemistryness, or whatever, softly singing for you to give up your Quest – doing all in their [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Waylaid Dragon

Relationships: The Three Hard Parts of Love and Relationships

The Hard Parts of Love and Relationships
My guess is that most of you have already had relationships galore. Good ones. Bad ones. Regrettable relationships. Forgettable relationships. Relationships that were life-changing. With all of them adding up to too many Cycles through too many of the Nine Stages. All of that experience has gotten you where [...] . . . → Read More: Relationships: The Three Hard Parts of Love and Relationships